When They Come for Your Hair: 10 Replies to Protect Your Peace
Be ready for the comments you didn’t ask for with confident, clear responses that keep your peace intact.
Inside this guide, you will get:
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10 smart, steady replies to shut down rude or unsolicited comments about your natural hair
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A bonus response for those especially uncomfortable questions that cross the line
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Calm, confident language that keeps you in control — without snapping or shrinking
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Light commentary to give context, boost confidence, and help you stay grounded
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A practical way to protect your peace and stand in your truth without overexplaining
Whether you are dealing with backhanded compliments, invasive or micro-aggressive questions, or straight-up rudeness, this guide gives you the words to respond with confidence and stay true to yourself.
Discover the 10 ways you can respond to rude and unsolicited natural hair comments. There are comments for various personality types:
- non-controversial
- direct
- snarky
- those uncomfortable being direct
- the polite responder
- the evader
- the educator
Enough is enough. Empower and prepare yourself with a response that suits you but makes it clear to others that your hair is not sub-par.
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